A sibling of a child with autism may sometimes feel that most of their parents’ attention is focused on the other child. Therapy sessions, daily care needs, and challenging behaviors can make it easy for a sibling’s feelings to be overlooked. A sibling being quiet, not showing jealousy, or spending time alone does not always mean they are unaffected by the situation.
Families should spend individual time with each child, provide age-appropriate and easy-to-understand explanations, and avoid placing the sibling in the role of a caregiver. The sibling should be encouraged to express emotions such as sadness, anger, or jealousy. Understanding these feelings instead of judging them can help strengthen safe and healthy family communication.
Shared play activities can begin with simple games that both children are able to enjoy, while positive communication and interaction should be encouraged. A healthy sibling relationship is not based on one child constantly making sacrifices, but on recognizing both children’s needs, respecting their boundaries, and providing balanced attention within the family.